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- June 25, 2026
- 10:37 am
Self awareness in leadership: a practical framework for executive leaders
Self-awareness is one of the most important skills and benefits in leadership development and executive leadership coaching.
Leaders who build strong self-awareness make better decisions, communicate more clearly, and create stronger, more engaged teams. I’ve personally noticed that leaders also have greater levels of energy and well-being.
It sounds simple, but in reality, it takes ongoing practice.
The way I like to think about self-awareness is in two parts. Internally, it’s being connected to what’s going on for me, my thoughts, my feelings, and how I choose to respond. Externally, it’s how I show up, how others experience me, and the impact I have in the room. It’s both.
This is something I often work through with leaders in executive leadership coaching sessions. There are many ways I work with executive leaders to build self-awareness. There are many ways to build self-awareness, and over time I’ve found a simple 5-step process that helps create more awareness and more intention in how we respond.
A practical leadership coaching framework to build self-awareness
Step 1: Anchor in fact
We all live in our own perception of reality, so the first step is to ground yourself in what actually happened.
What did I see? What did I hear? What would a camera have captured?
This helps separate fact from interpretation.
Step 2: Get clear on your thinking
Once something happens, our mind quickly creates a story.
What story did I tell myself? What meaning did I put on this situation?
Two people can experience the exact same moment and walk away with completely different stories.
Step 3: Deepen awareness
This is where we gently challenge ourselves.
What might I be assuming? What feels certain that might not actually be fact?
Our mind is very good at reinforcing the story we’ve created, even when it’s not accurate.
Step 4: Expand perspective
There is always more than one perspective.
What else could be true here? What might I not be seeing yet?
If another person is involved, stepping into their shoes can often shift everything.
Step 5: Shift to intentional choice
With all of that awareness, we create space to choose.
With this awareness, how might I respond now?
You don’t need to apply this to everything, but if you think about one meeting, one conversation, or one moment in the next week that really matters, where could you pause and use this process to show up at your best?
Why self-awareness matters in executive leadership coaching
In leadership coaching, self-awareness is often the starting point.
When leaders are able to slow their thinking, separate fact from story, and reflect on their response, they create better outcomes for themselves and for the people around them.
There are many ways to build self-awareness, including coaching, strengths tools, and 360-degree feedback. This is just one simple and practical approach that you can start using straight away.
If you’re in a senior leadership role and want to enhance your self-awareness, this is the kind of work we explore in executive leadership coaching.
You’re welcome to get in touch for a conversation about how this could support you.
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Josette Owen has been an instrumental figure in my professional journey over the past year. As my one-on-one coach, she has profoundly impacted my career achievements and personal development. In a landscape marked by constant internal shifts and significant external challenges, Josette’s transparent and candid coaching approach has equipped me with essential frameworks that I’ve applied successfully across various scenarios. Her sessions are characterized by flexibility, allowing us to delve into the core issues and emerge with a solid, actionable plan. Josette’s independence and insights into the motivations behind different behaviours have been particularly valuable to me. The benefits I’ve gained from my time with Josette are so significant that I’ve confidently recommended her to colleagues seeking professional coaching. Those who have taken my advice have also reported positive experiences, further affirming the value of her expertise.